I am just trying to understand my hair, to learn what works and what doesn't, to experiment, make mistakes, and to embrace my hair in it's entirety..... because Roots Don't Lie




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Friday, September 9, 2011

"Natural Me": Ify


       ·         What is your name and where are you from?
 I’m Ify from Nigeria but I currently live in the UK. 

·         How long have you been natural or transitioned
I have been ‘natural’ since like 2004 but then there were times in between that I texturized my hair (Bella Joya, you know naw).

·         Tell us a little bit about yourself and where you are in your life
I’m a student (almost a geek) cum singer (well in my mind) cum bag maker/ designer (also in my mind – I’m teaching myself how to make bags anyways). I like to dance as well.  I read a lot of blogs but the owners don’t even know me. Let’s just say I’m a lurker.
I would soo love to sing in a classy bar, maybe even own one. I would like to be an entrepreneur even though I’m majoring in biomedical science and looking to become a researcher for some time (yes I want to be everything)

·         Why did you decide to go natural?
I just like the look of it.

·         What are some of your favorite Hair products
Any conditioner I’m feeling at the time, some oils, Shea butter (ori).  I’ve done henna a few times and I think the results were ok.

·         What is your current hair regimen
Currently I’m in a weave (yes I know what I said). I also have this huge afro half wig that people confuse with my actual afro (bliss – sorry I like to leave my hair alone sometimes. Ok not really, because at night, when the wig is off, I’m there making sure it’s not locking on itself). I wash and condition my hair once a week (when I don't have a weave in). Afterwards, I put in large twists or braids and let it dry. Sometimes, I wash in twists too.
The shrinkage is the devil!!!!!!
I like to have my hair out. Twists make me look … errr not attractive although I do them once in a long while. They end up liking like locks though.


·         What is the toughest challenge you have had to face with your natural hair?
Well even when I had relaxed hair, my hairline was an issue (and no I didn’t do braids that much and still don’t).
 My hair also gets so dry that it makes me cut it a few times a year L. I have so many knots, and my hair just likes to tangle up so much. I have this secret fear that it may turn into locks when I’m not looking hehehehehehe. Not that I don’t like locks, I just don’t want them at the moment.
Maybe if things were not as bad as they are, my hair’ll probably be much bigger than it is at the moment.
I almost forgot, I get so much shrinkage, you think my hair id like 2 inches long when not stretched.

·         Do you foresee any changes to your hair 
Recently I considered a texturizer because my hair was doing sooo well when I had it – even though it was just for a bit (like substantial growth, almost no tangles - I used to do wash ‘n’ go’s then). But I didn’t get one though.

·         Advice for naturals out there.
Just calm down, it’s not that serious. Ok it is; but find YOUR balance and remember to make your choice and accept the result of your choice like a big girl. Also you may want to re evaluate your options every now and then to make sure you are doing what’s best.

·         Where can we find you
Errr the closest thing I have to a blog is some facebook page but it’s not hair related – IjemBags

My youtube page hmmm… maybe later, when I have good stuff up.
Please feel free to include pictures, and stuff

I’m also a ‘rootsdon’tlie’ stalker!!!! Stalkers unite!




 Thanks Ify for being a part of the "Natural Me" series!!!


NB: If you would like to feature in the "Natural Me" series just send an email to rootsdon'tlie with the subject line "Natural Me".


Thanks


XOXO
Bella Joya


New Blog Series: "Natural Me"

Hey Guys,
I decided to start a new series in my blog... and it is mainly to introduce all of us on 'Root's Don't Lie" to everyday naturals like you and me. So many times I see a lot of naturals gals and girls out there and I stay wondering what they do with their hair and how they do it.. So this new part of the blog will feature fellow naturals and give us a little insight into what they do and how they do it... Enjoy.

NB: If you are interested in being featured on "Roots Don't Lie", please feel free to contact me at jokejag@gmail.com


XOXO
Bella Joya

Monday, August 29, 2011

DEATH TO BOBBY PINS AND HAIR PINS!!!!!

Hey guys,

I know I have been away for a while, and honestly I'll be MIA for a few more weeks. Work is really busy and all the time I have left, which is not a lot, is spent sleeping or trying to study... Anyway  with things busy at work, I got tired of fixing my hair everyday, and my hair was starting to get crazy... I mean my ends were just ..meh!!!, and my hair felt really dry. Also I have been getting a ton of product build up and my scalp is itching more then ever.... I know things don't seem to be going well with my hair.. it's probably because I have not had time to spend on my hair..

So my solution to all my hair problems...


You guessed it, protective style. I put my hair in mini twists and I know that when I do take it out, de-tangling is going to be horrible but, the smaller  my twists, the longer they last.. and I do need as much time as I can get out of them.

The problem however, are these necessary evils called Bobby pins/ Hair pins. My hair is not long enough to be twisted into a self  'sustaining' updo, so I am forced to use bobby pins/ hair pins to hold them into whatever style I am wearing.. Bobby pins/ hair pins, however can be the most annoying thing ever...
 By the end of the day:
  • My scalp is sore because the pins need to hold my hair in place and I am very tender-headed
  • My hair is itching because the darn pins start flaking and they leave behind pieces of whatever is used to coat them in my hair
  • If they don't flake, the rounded ends somehow get separated from the ends, and so when removing them my hair gets stuck on the ends.
Do you guys find bobby pins/ hair pins as annoying as I do?
Do you also know any alternatives I can use to hold up my hair instead of using pins?








I love hearing from y'all so please leave your comments..

XOXO

Bella Joya




Saturday, August 13, 2011

Length Check (15 months natural)

Hey Guys,
My hair is about to go into a protective style so I thought to do a quick length check. I am actually about 4 days away from my 16th month of being completely natural but I'm sure any growth over the next 4 days will be hardly visible.. so this should work



















XOXO
Bella Joya


Afro Day

Hey Guys,
So today I attended a friends graduation in Dallas... I made the mistake  of rinsing my hair earlier in the day because somehow I had it in my head that this magic new method I tried was gonna give me a sort of wash and go.... er-mm no.. 
A few hours later my hair was shrinking fast so I but it in about 5 big twists, I took them out a few hours later... voila
Big Happy Hair






















XOXO
Bella Joya

Twist

Hey guys,

This is a quick post on what my two-strand twists currently look like
I have had them in for about 8 days and I intend on keeping them for three weeks. after about 5 days of having the mini twists in I rinsed them with an apple cider vinegar rinse because my scalp was really itchy.
This is a length check of my mini twists








Pictures from May....







XOXO

Bella Joya